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Are You Afraid Of Recovery? It’s Normal: Tips and Tricks

This article is written by, Amanda. Amanda chooses to keep her full name anonymous in concert with Alcoholics Anonymous. She is passionate about recovery and inspiring others to follow the path to recovery for life.

Are you afraid to get sober?

Have you ever thought or said, “I’m so scared of recovery”? If so, don’t worry you are completely normal. No matter how long you’ve been drinking or using, those substances have formed a habit in your life. When you feel depressed, you drink or use. When you feel confused about life, you drink or use. When you’ve just heard some great news, you drink or use to celebrate. Eventually, with every emotion that you’re able to feel, you now habitually reach for those substances.

One reason recovery seems so scary is that you have no clue how you will handle any situation, good or bad, without drugs or alcohol. It’s all you’ve known for so long. I’m sure you’ve heard the famous quote from Albert Einstein, “if you want different results, do not do the same things.” So, this means you will need to form new habits to replace the old because what you’ve been doing isn’t working. I know that you’re thinking this seems impossible. I promise you, it’s not impossible.

Being Afraid To Stop Abusing Drugs Or Alcohol Is Normal

It is common for someone in recovery to have an experience similar to this “I’m scared of being sober because I’m scared of not having a crutch to lean on. When I’m drunk, I don’t have to worry about anything. I don’t have to think about my problems and I can just enjoy myself. But when I’m sober, all of those problems come crashing down on me and it’s just too much.” These thoughts are normal. If you are experiencing them, forming new recovery and relapse prevention habits is a good path to follow.

It’s also tough to commit to going to drug rehab where you will be away from friends family and vices. Fear of physical withdrawal symptoms also holds people back. These are rational fears. But the future can be so bright once you are on the other side of addiction with drug detox programs.

Forming New Habits In Recovery

The key to creating long-lasting new habits in your life is to make small, achievable goals for yourself. Starting by setting daily goals that incorporate your mind, body, and soul is a great way to lay a solid foundation for a beautiful life.

Things You Can Do To Take Your Mind Off Being Afraid Of Sobriety

  • When I feel happy and/or sad today, I will take a walk to observe the nature around me.
  • When I feel happy and/or sad today, I will read or listen to a book
  • When I feel happy and/or sad today, I will do some form of exercise (run, bike, swim, etc.)
  • When I feel happy and/or sad today, I will make someone else’s day a little brighter

You can insert any emotion and any action step into your own goals. When you achieve these small goals every single day, you are creating brand new habits in your life. You will begin to notice as the days turn into weeks and the weeks turn into months, you’ve been accomplishing these things without giving much thought to them. Another thing you will notice is that you did all this without putting drugs or alcohol in your body, which will give you the momentum to keep pressing forward through everything you’re faced with.

You Don’t Have to Be Scared Of Recovery

Friend, it’s okay to feel scared about recovery. Just remember to start small because you can always build on that. If you’re willing to put in the work, you will receive all the rewards!

How To Stay Sober: Changing Your Habits To Prevent Relapse

A sober life looks drastically different than a life of addiction. Your living situation, your sleep schedule, your meals, your friends, and your activities will all be different when you give up drugs or alcohol. This becomes apparent during rehab when individuals are required to follow a somewhat strict schedule and change much of their daily life. In order to maintain sobriety, these changes should also continue into life back at home after rehab.

How Can You Avoid Triggers That Lead To Relapse?

One of the best ways to stay sober is to avoid triggers and things and people that would tempt you to go back to using. The addict’s lifestyle is often full of booze and bars, unhealthy relationships, discouraging friends, and atmospheres that encourage the use of drugs or alcohol. You will need to give up your old haunts and places you used to go to get high in order to avoid unnecessary triggers. You will need to clean up your relationships, manage conflict, and surround yourself with positive influences. You might even need to give up many of your friendships if those people are unwilling to change.

This does not mean you can’t have friends. On the contrary, solid friendships are a source of support and motivation to stay sober. Whenever you give up something for the sake of sobriety, be prepared to fill that spot with something beneficial, wholesome, and encouraging. Friends who harm you and drag you back into a lifestyle of addiction should be gently let go. Instead, surround yourself with friends and family who want to see you succeed and are willing to help you in your sobriety. Rather than go back to the bars and establishments where you used to get high or drunk, find new places where you can maintain that new, positive energy. It is all about choices, and by choosing to avoid certain locations, relationships, and activities, you can greatly reduce triggers to use and stay sober in the long run.

Recognizing Relapse Behavior

No matter what changes you make in your lifestyle and the success you’ve had during recovery, relapse remains a threat to anyone who has given up an addiction. This imperfect world still holds many triggers to use and you will continue to face cravings, even after recovery. The best thing to do is to remain alert and watch for the early signs of relapse. If you and your loved ones learn and watch for signs of slipping back into addiction, you can prevent relapse or at least catch it early and get help.

The first and most recognizable sign you as a recovering addict will see is a decreased interest in recovery. Sobriety may not seem as important to you, you might lose interest in hanging out with sober individuals, and you might let your attendance at support groups slide. As you do so, you will pull away from your family and friends, which will be the first sign they will likely notice. Whenever recovering addict withdraws from loved ones, support groups, and the recovery community, they are at risk for relapse. Once the addict pulls away, they will face stronger and more urgent cravings to use. They might entertain thoughts of “what if” they use again. If you start to feel the slide, the first thing you should do is tell someone, whether it is a sponsor, counselor, or a loved one, and confide in someone else and get help.

Signs of Relapse

  • Not going to support group meetings.
  • Not asking for help.
  • Poor eating habits.
  • Poor sleep habits.
  • Withdrawing from family and friends.
  • Mood swings.
  • Associating with friends that remind the addict of using.
  • Going back to places where drugs and alcohol are common.
  • Anxiety.
  • Intolerance.
  • Anger.
  • Defensiveness.
  • Isolation.
  • Glamorizing substance use.
  • Fantasizing about using.
  • Planning to use again.

Relapse Prevention Tequniques

The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) estimates that 40-60% of recovering drug addicts relapse–a percentage very similar to the relapse rates of other chronic illnesses, like Type 1 Diabetes, Hypertension and Asthma. Just as with these other illnesses, the risk of addiction relapse decreases among those who carefully manage their disease and stick with the designated treatment plan.

Relapse prevention is a large part of addiction treatment or detox program. Anyone who has gone through rehab and is determined to live a sober life must have a plan in place to maintain that sobriety. This plan is usually established with the guidance of treatment providers before the treatment program is finished so that the individual is prepared to face the real world once they complete rehab. A relapse prevention plan spells out things the individual can do when they feel weak and ways they can help themselves avoid temptations to use. Participation in an alumni program and support group activities, learning how to deal with triggers, and learning how to implement lifestyle changes are all important to consider during treatment and before heading back to normal life.

What if I Relapse?

Of course, relapse is always possible and it does happen, but it can be managed and the person can still achieve a sober life. Those who do relapse find that with help, they are able to get back up and on the track to sobriety again. Relapse, while unfortunate and something to be avoided is only a set back on the journey to sobriety as long as the person seeks treatment again.

If you do relapse, don’t panic. Tell someone, and get back to treatment. You might need to re-enroll in a residential program again, or you might be able to get clean again with a refresher outpatient course. Then, when you are back on your own again after treatment, be serious about sticking to your relapse prevention plan. Attend support group sessions regularly, change your habits to fit a sober life, and surround yourself with positive influences. Don’t let relapse take away your motivation or belief in your sobriety.

Relapse Signs, Symptoms, and Prevention Techniques

After completing treatment, one of the greatest fears newly recovering people face is relapse.  Relapse is a process, not a quick, situational event. It begins in subtle ways and increasingly moves the individual into a position of believing that renewing alcohol or drug use is the only action that makes sense.

Addiction is sometimes referred to as a “feelings disease.” It’s no surprise that the relapse process often begins in the emotional arena. Signs to watch for are bottling up emotions, not going to recovery support group meetings, attending meetings but not sharing, isolating from friends and family, poor eating, sleeping and exercise habits, and focusing on other people’s problems. Intolerance, defensiveness, and mood swings are also signs to look out for. Pointing these things out in a safe and supportive way can go a long way to help someone see that the relapse process is beginning.

How Does Relapse Happen?

If the emotional relapse process isn’t interrupted, there is an increased risk of transitioning into the mental arena. The experience of this can be like getting caught in the middle of an argument in one’s own mind. The arguments for and against renewing use begin to crop up in the thought life, creating distraction and stress. They are not fleeting thoughts of using. These thoughts are being driven by and driving the desire to make an actual choice to return to using substances.

As the emotional relapse compounds into the mental, relapse cravings or psychological urges to use substances begin occurring. Also, thinking of schemes to better control using starts cropping up along with fantasizing about using, looking for opportunities to use – hanging out with former using partners in locations where using is made easier. At this stage, a plan to renew use is being formulated. The individual often appears restless, irritable, and discontent. Making the right choices becomes increasingly difficult as the pull to return to using becomes stronger.

Developing Relapse Prevention Skills

As part of our program at The Ridge, we teach our clients how to work with denial, recognize the relapse process In their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors as well as develop plans and practice skills to interrupt it.

It is a common misconception that relapse prevention program be used when a person is experiencing cravings or using thoughts. There are a vast array of relapse prevention skills that can easily be implemented into a recovering person’s daily schedule.

Common Symptoms Of Early Recovery

Common post-acute withdrawal symptoms when recovering from addiction include insomnia and fatigue.  These are common potential triggers for relapse. By implementing physical exercise and a balanced diet, one can improve the quality of sleep. This can be done by setting up and following a structured sleep, exercise, and eating schedule.  By doing this, one can retrain the body to sleep better and will also help reduce the risk of relapse. Good sleep hygiene supports the brain’s healing process while it restores dopamine production to normal levels.

Relapse Prevention Techniques – Mindfulness

A helpful relapse prevention technique is a grounding technique called the 5-4-3-2-1 coping technique. It takes you through the five senses to focus on the moment and avoid thoughts of using alcohol or other drugs, anxiety, negative self-talk, and any other unhealthy thought or feeling that may lead someone to want to use to escape.

The 5 steps begin by taking a few deep breaths, followed by the following:

  1. Acknowledge five things you see around you.
  2. Acknowledge four things you can touch around you.
  3. Acknowledge three things you can hear around you.
  4. Acknowledge two things you can smell around you.
  5. Acknowledge one thing you can taste around you.

End this exercise with a long, deep breath. Focusing on your senses will help you gain self-awareness and increase mindfulness, which will help you accomplish daily tasks, overcome unhealthy thoughts or feelings, feel more in-control and less overwhelmed, and reduce the risk of relapse.

Breathing is central to life, as you know. What many do not know, however, is how much control you have over your life by simply changing your breathing patterns. Breathing is not only connected to various essential functions throughout your body, but it also has a large effect on your brain chemistry. Breathing greatly impacts your emotions and helps regulate your overall mood. This is why deep breathing is so essential with one’s mental health.

Triggers That Lead To Relapse

The most common triggers for many recovering alcoholics and addicts are hunger, anger, loneliness, and feeling tired. By doing a regular inventory of HALT, one can help prevent the risk of relapse. Whenever feeling a craving to use, or in general feeling anxious or “off,” ask yourself if you are feeling any of these symptoms and respond to them if you are.

Triggers can be internal (anxiety, irritability, stress, anger, low self-esteem) or external (people, places, or things that remind one of their past use). Making a list of internal and external triggers and discussing them is an efficient way to gain awareness of one’s triggers and reduce the risk of relapse. It also helps to have a quick response plan for triggers that includes grounding techniques.

Deep Breathing and Mindfulness To Prevent Relapse

Deep breathing releases neurotransmitters in your brain, many of which trigger feel-good chemicals resulting in relaxation, happiness, and pain reduction. Deep breathing, and the resulting increased oxygen flow, also encourage your body to exhale toxins. A useful deep breathing technique is the 4 x 4. Take four deep breaths in through your nose and hold, then release for four seconds. You should feel your diaphragm moving in and out while you breathe. Deep breathing is an excellent relapse prevention technique because it can be utilized virtually anywhere without anyone knowing you’re doing it.

If you find yourself having the desire to drink or get high and you are debating what to do, a great tool is playing the tape through first. To play the tape through, you must play out what will happen in your mind until the very end. Imagine what will happen in the short and long-term future if you decide to drink or use. Think of the consequences that would occur if you used vs. if you did not use. This can help with your decision-making and reduce the risk of relapse.

Mindfulness meditation is a concept that teaches individuals to become more self-aware. When we are more self-aware, we are better able to cope with potential triggers to relapse. A study by the National Center for Biotechnology Information found outcomes that suggest significant improvement in individuals in recovery who follow a mindfulness meditation relapse prevention program versus those who do not use mindfulness meditation.

The individuals using mindfulness meditation remained clean and sober longer and reported less cravings and increased awareness and acceptance. With Mindfulness meditation, participants are encouraged to learn to “roll with” their cravings, rather than fight them. Acceptance that cravings will come is a learned skill through this practice, while implementing relapse prevention skills. Concepts such as acceptance, letting go of personal control, and the use of prayer and meditation are hallmarks of mindfulness meditation.

The core concept of mindfulness is paying attention, awareness, or focus on what you’re doing, where you are, who you’re with, and more. To start the process of becoming more mindful, simply notice what you are doing with no judgement. It can be helpful to write down one’s daily activities by tracking them with a smartphone to bring more awareness to what you are doing, thinking, and feeling. This can lead to tremendous insight and empowerment over cravings.

Get Help Today With Relapse Prevention Techniques

Implementing these relapse prevention techniques into your daily schedule can greatly help reduce the risk of relapse. Contact The Ridge to learn more about inpatient, outpatient, detox treatment programs and learn more relapse prevention skills and get help today.

Recovery and Exercise: You Always Feel Better

What is the link between addiction recovery and exercise? 

Not long ago, on their first day of treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), one of our clients told us a story.

They’d quit drinking once before – on their own – but relapsed. They committed to our residential program because this time they wanted help. They wanted their sobriety to last, and they realized the best way to achieve sustained sobriety was with the kind of support you can only find in a professional treatment program.

But we digress.

Here’s the story they told us about the first time they tried to quit.

At the first AA meeting they went to, 15 years ago, an old-timer was the guest speaker. He had an interesting life and an eventful recovery journey, so he was asked to talk to the group and tell his story. Our patient says never forget the first words that man said, standing up in front of the group of about 50 people at that meeting:

“Yeah, even though I’m glad I’m sober, I’m glad to be at a meeting, and I’m honored I was asked to speak here tonight, it makes me sad looking out at this group, because one thing I know is that there’s a good chance a lot of you aren’t going to stay sober.”

He went on to cite statistics about relapse rates and other scary stuff, then told his story. He was 72 years old. He’d first entered AA in his early 30’s. He stayed sober for 30 years. Then, just before he was about to retire, he relapsed. Not for one day, or one week, or one month.

For five years.

His behavior during relapse led to serious consequences. He lost his job. His wife left him. He lost the respect of his kids and burned through almost all his retirement savings. How? He took unnecessary trips. He spent money resolving a DUI. And of course, he spent way too much money on bar tabs.

Then he hit bottom and found his way back to AA. He’d just gotten his five year chip the week before he spoke at that meeting.

That’s the very definition of a cautionary tale.

Trigger Management: How to Handle the Bad Days

If you’re in recovery, these stories are important to hear.

Anyone with an alcohol use disorder (AUD) needs to remember that relapse can happen. It can happen after a week, a month, or a year. It happened to this man after 30 years. That’s why you should know ahead of time that if you’re in recovery, you’ll have bad days, just like anyone else has bad days. However, when you have bad days, you’ll want to drink. Or if you have a substance use disorder (SUD), you’ll want to use your drug of choice. And if you go back to drinking or doing drugs, the consequences may be severe.

We’re not saying you’ll spend your retirement money or end up divorced and estranged from your kids – but it can happen.

That’s why you have to plan for the bad days.

On your bad days, it will seem like triggers are everywhere.

Triggers – meaning external stimuli that elicit thought processes that can lead to relapse – are different for everyone. Trigger can be people, like family members, friends, or peers you used to drink or do drugs with. They can also be places, like bars you used to frequent, or places you used to get drugs. Triggers can also be sensory, like specific odors, or songs that evoke certain memories.

The one thing all triggers have in common is what they do to your thoughts and emotions. They can elicit patterns of thought and emotion that lead to relapse. That’s why a big part of treatment is trigger management.

Trigger management is learning how to process triggers so they don’t lead to relapse – and it’s one of the most important skills you’ll learn during recovery.

For some people, the very best trigger management skill they learn is very simple: exercise.

The Gift of Exercise

Exercise can be an important piece of the recovery puzzle. Some say it’s the most important piece of their aftercare plan and the only thing that really makes them feel better. Especially in the beginning, and especially on bad days. Since we don’t encourage people to put all their eggs in one basket, recovery-wise, we remind them that it’s one part of the entire recovery picture.

But we get it.

Exercise works.

The people for whom it works for tell us that no matter how much they want to drink or use drugs, their workout routine saves them. Without fail, they get started doing their thing – whether it’s yoga or running or lifting weights – and start to feel better in about ten minutes. The longer they work out, the better it gets. They feel the tension slipping away. They feel alive. Vital. And when it’s done, they feel better.

It works every time.

But why?

The Neurochemical Effects of Exercise for Addiction Recovery

What’s going on in my brain when you exercise? Research shows that exercise alters brain chemistry for the better.

Among other things, exercise:

Increases levels of norepinephrine, a hormone that regulates stress.
  • Exercise creates a short-term stress on the body, but in response, the mind generates chemicals like norepinephrine, which help the body process stress hormones. In this way, one thing exercise does is allows the body to practice regulating stress.
Lowers levels of cortisol, a hormone that causes stress.
  • Evidence shows that exercise intensity determines how much exercise decreases circulating levels of cortisol:
    • Low intensity exercise has a modest but noticeable effect on cortisol reduction. Low intensity exercise is any activity performed at about 30-40% of your maximum possible level of effort.
    • Moderate intensity exercise has a significant effect on cortisol reduction. Moderate intensity exercise is any activity performed at about 50-60% of your maximum possible level of effort.
    • High intensity exercise has the most significant effect on cortisol reduction. High intensity exercise is any activity performed at about 60-80% of your maximum possible level of effort.
Increases levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter which combats depression.
  • Studies show that during exercise, activity increases the amount of amino acids muscles require to function. When levels of these amino acids decrease, the chemical precursor to serotonin, called tryptophan, has a better chance of crossing the blood-brain barrier, where it becomes serotonin. High levels of serotonin in the brain correlate with both a reduction in stress and a reduction in depressive mood.
Increases levels of dopamine, a neurotransmitter related to both reward seeking and pleasure.
  • Dopamine plays a complex role in human behavior. It’s involved in coordination, movement, and motivation.  It’s also known as the body’s feel good chemical because it contributes to feelings like bliss and euphoria. Decades of research show that exercise can increase levels of circulating dopamine in the brain. In addition, regular exercise over time leads to more efficient dopamine production, which contributes to higher default levels of circulation dopamine in the blood and brain.
Improves executive function in the brain.
  • Research shows:
    • Aerobic exercise can lead to modest improvements in executive function, i.e. how well the mind processes information and makes decisions.
    • High intensity exercise like weightlifting can lead to significant improvement in executive function.
    • Exercise with a mix of low intensity activity, high intensity activity, and activity that requires heightened coordination – traditional martial arts, yoga, and chi kung, for instance – leads to more significant improvements in executive function than aerobic exercise or anaerobic exercise (e.g. weightlifting) alone.

Exercise and Recovery

Everyone in recovery deals with trigger-rich days.

That’s because just about everything involved with being a living, breathing adult – family, work, friends, bills – has potential to cause stress and anxiety. When stress and anxiety reach a critical threshold they can become triggers and lead to relapse.

And that’s where exercise comes in. On those challenging, trigger-rich days, exercise is an efficient and powerful coping mechanism.

People in recovery who rely on exercise as a primary coping mechanism say that exercise:

  • Chills them out and gets them steady. They describe exercise like a brain reset: it helps them let go of the stress of the day and move forward with a clean slate.
  • Gives them time to get away from it all. Exercise is their time to think things over, get perspective, and solve problems on their own terms. It’s the one time of day that’s theirs and theirs alone.
  • Gives them something to look forward to. People who exercise in the morning may go to sleep early just so they can get up early and have a good workout. People who exercise in the evening look forward to it all day, and often use it as a transition between work and home life.
  • Helps them feel connected. Many people go to group exercise classes like spinning, aerobics, yoga, or high-intensity interval training (HIIT). They form relationships with instructors and peers based on a shared activity that’s not drinking or doing drugs. This has many positive ramifications: more sober friends increases their chances of staying sober, as does learning to have fun and spend free time in a sober-friendly, healthy environment.
  • Helps them feel better. Always. We say this above, and repeat it here because that’s the one thing everyone comes back to. Exercise makes them feel better in the moment. It may be hard to get started on some days, but before long, the resistance fades and the benefits appear: improved mood, improved self-esteem, and reduced stress. Again, the people that love to exercise report that it’s hard to find anything that works as well, as quickly, and as consistently as their daily workout.

Don’t just take it from them, though.

The research we cite above shows that exercise has a quantifiable neurochemical effect on the brain. It reduces stress and improves overall brain function. That’s what makes it an ideal sober-friendly activity, and a tool which everyone in recovery should have in their toolbox.

That brings us back to the anecdote we shared at the beginning of this article – the one shared by a new patient of ours about his first encounter and an AA meeting. We wonder: if the old-timer who spoke at that meeting had exercise in his life, perhaps he wouldn’t have had his devastating five-year slip. Maybe he could have avoided all that pain and difficulty, simply by adding exercise to his daily routine. And maybe, just maybe, if everyone in recovery adds exercise – a little bit every day – to their recovery/sobriety/aftercare plan, they may be able to reduce their chance of relapse and increase their chance at achieving long-term sobriety.

If you’re in recovery, we think you should give exercise a shot: at best, you’ll find a rock-solid, top-line activity. And at worst, you’ll get in shape.

Either way, that’s a win-win.

If you need help in the recovery process, The Ridge offers a comprehensive detox program that includes an inpatient rehab facility in Cincinnati, along with other treatments and therapies. You can contact today to learn more about it.

Functional Changes of the Brain in the Disordered Use of Alcohol and Substances

The misuse of alcohol or substances leads to functional changes in the brain, transforming addiction into a disease rather than a choice. Contrary to popular belief, addiction is not about strength, willpower, or moral character. Many individuals grappling with addiction often face questions from their loved ones, such as “Why can’t you just stop?” However, this question overlooks the true nature of addiction, as it is a medical condition rather than a simple decision like choosing between iced tea and soda.

Addiction is classified as a disease, just like many other medical conditions. To be considered a disease, the scientific community requires a disorder to meet three specific criteria: causing harm to the individual, presenting a consistent and identifiable set of signs and symptoms, and yielding abnormal test results when compared to a person without the disease. Addiction fulfills all three criteria, further emphasizing its status as a disease rather than a matter of personal choice.

Brain Scans Show Altered Function

That’s why scientists call it a disease of the brain.

The relevant test – the one that must yield an abnormal result when compared to an individual without the disease – is a brain scan. In this context, a brain scans is a sophisticated image of the brain that looks at the function, rather than the structure, of the brain. Neuroscientists have performed these brain scans on people with and without addiction. They know what a typical brain looks like, compared to the brain of someone with a diagnosed alcohol or substance use disorder.

When a brain is scanned, different colors in the scan reveal different levels of overall activity. As a rule of thumb, the darker the color, the more the activity. The waking human brain typically displays the highest level of activity toward the front, in an area called the prefrontal cortex. That pattern changes consistently in people diagnosed with AUD or SUD. In their brains, the prefrontal cortex shows less activity, while an area in the central part of the brain – the reward center –  shows more activity than in a typical brain. The abnormal brain scan is the key to understanding why people can’t make the choice to just stop using.

When we understand that the disordered use of alcohol or substances – a.k.a. addiction – has a physiological base, we know we can remove things like willpower, ethics, morals, strength, and choice from the equation.

Form and Function in the Typical Human Brain

Different brain areas have different functions, and there are connections between these different areas. One of these parts is the nucleus accumbens (NA). Neuroscientists call the NA the pleasure center or the reward and reinforcement center of the brain. The NA is a group of brain cells that have only one function: it causes an individual to repeat any behavior that stimulates those brain cells.

That’s interesting: it only exists to reinforce itself.

Why would we have a part of the brain like that?

The answer: survival.

Scientists theorize that it’s beneficial to repeat any behaviors that increase the likelihood of survival of the individual and/or the species. In that regard, there are certain behaviors that have always been very important to our survival. These include but are not limited to eating food/drinking water, having sex, and sleeping. These behaviors are salient. They matter a lot. They stimulate the NA, and therefore, we repeat them, and we repeat them frequently.

Another part of the brain that’s relevant to our discussion is the frontal lobe. The frontal lobe, or lobes, are located in the front of the brain. Neuroscientists call this the socialization center. It’s the part of the brain responsible for keeping track of everything our society or culture teaches us is good or bad, acceptable or unacceptable, right or wrong, and safe or unsafe. The frontal lobes are the part of the brain where we store information about ethics and morals are learned. When you tell someone to make a choice, the frontal lobes spring into action, no matter what the choice is about – good vs. bad, acceptable vs. unacceptable, etc.

Brain Form and Function During the Disordered Use of Alcohol or Substances

Now let’s talk about how the brain behaves when someone has an alcohol or substance use disorder.

We already know, by definition, that disease means altered function. In a typical brain, the frontal lobes are very active and dominate most conscious behavior. This means that when you have a choice to make, our frontal lobes – the place where we store everything we know and have learned – kick in. In a brain with the disease of addiction, however, the frontal lobes do not kick in the way they should. They do not dominate behavior. A different part of the brain takes over. Which one?

The pleasure/reinforcement center.

It becomes more active, and dominates.

Why?

Because it has been repeatedly overstimulated.

That’s the key.

Scientists know of thirty million mood-altering substances that affect the brain. Out of those 30 million, less than one hundred of them can lead to the disease of addiction. It’s rare. Think about it: only a tiny fraction of the total number have that result. The one thing that all mood-altering substances have in common is that they overstimulate the reinforcement center of the brain – and they do it to a far greater degree, to a higher intensity, and for a longer duration than any of the naturally salient stimulators of the reinforcement center.

It’s important to understand the reinforcement center does not recognize that mood-altering substances are abnormal. It’s there to get us to repeat whatever behavior stimulates it, not judge the stimuli. That’s what neuroscientists mean when they say that mood altering substances hijack the human brain. They affect the part of the brain that’s supposed to drive us to repeat whatever stimulates it. They stimulate it more than water, one of the few things on earth that’s absolutely necessary for our survival.

Stimulate and Repeat: The Cycle of Addiction

When a part of the brain is repeatedly stimulated, it becomes more active. In some cases, it becomes more dominant.

This impairs our decision-making process and creates a battle between our conscious frontal lobes and our subconscious pleasure center.

Which part of the brain will win the battle?

The part that’s more active. The part that’s dominant.

People with an alcohol or substance use disorder definitely know drinking and doing drugs is not good for them. Most of them want to stop. But because the thought “I want to stop” comes from the under-stimulated, conscious part of the brain – the frontal lobes – it gets overwhelmed by the subconscious reward center, which is stimulated over and over again by the addictive substance.

That’s why people with an alcohol or substance use disorder find it almost impossible to simply decide to quit, and that’s also why it often takes external factors – such as evidence-based treatment – to send the disease of addiction into remission. We advise anyone who thinks they have an addiction disorder to get a full evaluation from an addiction expert. When they learn their brain may have been hijacked by addiction – when they learn you have a disease of the brain – it increases their chances of agreeing to professional treatment and support.

Back to Balance: Rebuild Your Brain

One last thing: it’s critical to understand that it’s possible to restore your the brain to it’s typical form and function. Evidence shows that with abstinence, a brain that shows an abnormal scan can repair itself. It may take between one and five years, but it can return a typical scan, with no sign of the dysfunction associated with addiction.

That’s important.

That’s what real remission means, according to the medical model of disease: the absence of an abnormal test. A disease is not in remission until the relevant test – in the case of addiction, the brain scan – returns a typical result. When an individual with addiction seeks professional treatment and support for addiction, they can learn the skills necessary to maintain abstinence.

With abstinence, they stop overstimulating the reward center of their brain, which prevents it from dominating the decision-making center of their brain. Over time, their brain returns to balance. The part of their brain that evolved to make important decisions – the frontal lobes – once again dominates. When the frontal lobes dominate, the individual is no longer controlled by the reward center of their brain – and that’s the goal.

The Ridge Can Help

If you or a loved one is suffering with disordered use of alcohol or substances, The Ridge is here to help in the detoxification process. Contact us to learn more about the top drug and alcohol treatment Cincinnati has to offer.

How Do Rehab Centers in Ohio Work?

There are thousands of rehab centers around the world, but none compared to the rehab centers in Ohio. We understand this is a tall order and you might begin to wonder what makes the rehab centers in Ohio better than anywhere else.

As you continue to read, you’ll find out the information you need to know about why we’re the number one choice. Get ready to begin your journey down recovery road after you check out what’s below.

How Does Rehab Work?

It’s important to know how rehab works when you enter addiction treatment in Ohio. The first step in treatment is detox.

When you use alcohol and substances for a long period of time it changes the way your body works and alters the chemicals in your brain. Because of this when you stop using any drug or substance your body begins to crave those substances which usually trigger people to use again.

We aren’t saying detox will be easy, in fact, it will be challenging, and you might face moments where you want to give up. However, detox is important because if your body isn’t free and clear of all substances you can’t move forward in treatment.

Mainly because you won’t be able to receive the information you’re being taught with an open and clear mind. As mentioned, detoxing can be challenging, and it can turn life-threatening depending on the amount of time you’ve been using your substance of choice.

After you’ve completed detox, you can move on to the next phase of treatment.

Working Your Program

After you’ve completed detox, you can begin to work on your program. The first step in working on your program is sitting down with the facility coordinator and determining the type of program that’s best for you.

Regardless of the program, you’ve chosen to enter you will undergo a combination of therapy treatments that include both individual and group sessions.

The best part of group sessions is you get to spend time with other people that are in addiction treatment and understand what you’re going through. In individual therapy sessions, you’ll do hard work getting to the bottom of your addiction.

Your counselor is not there to sugarcoat things for you, they’re there to help you embrace reality and the facts about your addiction. They’ll also help you learn the different coping tools you need as you continue in your recovery journey.

Our Approach

A lot of treatment facility centers follow the traditional approach which is the 12-step program. This program isn’t bad and is a method that has worked a countless number of times but in our Ohio rehab center, we take a more holistic approach to treatment.

For example, for families, we offer a program that focuses and centers on making a breakthrough in family relationships. This is beneficial for people that find themselves in a codependent and toxic relationship with their family members.

The benefit of finding the underlying cause of family issues and working through them is because after treatment you’ll need a support system. You also will need a place to return to that aids in your recovery instead of hindering it.

In these sessions you will learn:

  • What codependency looks like
  • Ways to ward off codependency
  • How to set boundaries
  • What support from loved ones looks like in addiction recovery

We also focus on providing quality after-care options for our clients. We don’t want the work you do in treatment to be in vain.

We offer 52 weeks of aftercare for everyone that completes our treatment program. Meetings in the aftercare program meet once a week in one of our outpatient offices.

This program stresses that people need to attend all meetings to ensure they remain on the right path.

In-Depth Assessments

We want to ensure the treatment program you enter is personalized to your needs. Addiction treatment isn’t one size fits all therefore you need to have an assessment performed to know the right treatment plan you need in your recovery journey.

During the assessment, a member of staff will sit and speak with you to determine the level of care you need. They’ll ask questions about the goals you wish to achieve and the circumstances surrounding your addiction.

The assessment will identify the level of help you need and help you learn what underlying conditions have contributed to your addiction.

Clear Rules

Our Ohio rehab center leaves no rock unturned and that means letting you know what the rules are and what you can and can’t bring to the treatment facility. You should bring typically personal hygiene products but there are several things you can’t have.

You are not permitted to bring a cell phone because you’re here to work on your recovery program, not to talk on the phone. There is a phone in the treatment facility but to use it you will need to be supervised.

You’re not permitted to bring any weapons or sexual materials.

Why the Rehab Centers in Ohio?

After everything you read above, you’re still wondering why rehab centers in Ohio are the right move? How about the holistic approach to addiction treatment?

Or perhaps the specialized aftercare we provide to everyone that completes our program. If you’re ready to start getting sober the only choice is the best Ohio rehab center, The Ridge.

Stop feeling like you’re out on a limb by yourself and let us help you back up over the edge. Your clean start begins now.

We want to help you along the way. Contact us today.

How to Choose a Detox Center: Everything You Need to Know

Did you know that nearly 21 million Americans have at least one addiction, but only 10% receive treatment?

Alcohol and drug addiction are terrible conditions that affect lives and relationships negatively. Luckily, there are many detox center options across the US aimed at helping addicts.

But, you need to know how to choose a detox center that will offer you the best help on your road to recovery. There are many different detox programs, and your experience will vary from anyone else’s.

Your sobriety is important, so choosing the right detox center is crucial. The huge number of options available means that it may be hard to decide.

Figuring out your preferences is vital in making the right decision. But, the sad truth is that some detox centers are better than others.

Keep reading to know how to choose a detox center.

Understanding Detox

A detox process is where your body gets rid of drugs within the system while managing the withdrawal symptoms.

It’s crucial to know why detox should be the first step in addiction treatment. The process will aid you in staying sober.

A medically assisted withdrawal enables you to avoid severe withdrawal symptoms. The process will ease your transition into rehab.

There are many different detox programs and detox facilities in Ohio. Knowing more about them will help you make the best choice for a safe recovery from drug dependency.

Research Is Key

Having background information on the detox center you choose will make you feel more secure in this life-changing choice. Start by determining the type of treatment you need.

Detox centers offer many services to meet your needs and, at times, may need a residential stay.

That way, therapists and counselors track the physical aspect of your detox program and handle it correctly. Detox is the initial step in your recovery process.

When doing your due diligence on a detox center, ensure you know the type of non-medical services they offer. Are there licensed therapists and counselors? Does the center use a 12-step program?

Accreditation, Certifications, and Licensing

Most detox centers have accreditations by The Joint Commission or the CARF, both nonprofit and independent.

They base their accreditation on industry performance, quality, value, and results.

State licensing isn’t like accreditation, and licensing requirements vary with states. Detox centers also need certifications to advertise their services on Facebook and Google. They use Legit Script, which is a third-party.

Through a rigorous screening process, only legitimate treatment centers can advertise services. The process ensures customer protection.

Detox Center Staff Licenses and Credentials

Licenses and credentials are important. That’s because staff treating drug addictions meet the national standards for professional practice.

The credentials needed by addiction treatment professionals include:

  • Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LADC)
  • Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)
  • Certified Co-occurring Disorders Counselor (CCDP)
  • Certified Addictions Counselor (CAC)

If the staff is not accredited or licensed, they may lack the training and experience to offer effective care. Avoid such detox centers by all means.

Make a Budget

Addiction can ruin someone’s finances because they use most of their cash on alcohol and drug abuse. As such, you might worry about how you will pay for detox and what program you can afford.

A nice way to know this is by making a budget. Include the amount you can pay for the treatment and the expenses and other bills you incur while in treatment.

Also, according to NIDA, treatment is more affordable than addiction in the long run. After knowing what you can afford, choosing a detox center that suits your budget is simple.

Inpatient vs. Outpatient Detox

It can be hard choosing between these two. But it’s a vital step in choosing the type of detox that’s best for you.

Some people need more intensive treatment in inpatient detox centers. People with jobs will fare better in outpatient detox programs.

Also, addicts struggling with comorbid disorders like mental illnesses often need inpatient care. Detox centers will have more treatment options available for people with this condition.

SAMHSA states that support from family and friends is among the four dimensions that support a life in recovery. Lack of this support makes it harder for people in recovery, and that’s why inpatient care is more effective in such cases.

If you need intensive medical care or hospitalization, consider an inpatient detox. If you fear relapse or might experience serious withdrawal symptoms, you also need an inpatient detox or help from an inpatient rehab facility.

Consider all the benefits of inpatient detox and see if it’s the best option for your recovery journey. Once you do that, you will know the right type of care for you.

Aftercare Concerns

In recovery, the time you will spend should detoxify your body and prepare you to leave. Various treatment centers have housing options, support groups, and job placement services.

That way, you are not alone when you leave. Aftercare support is important for a sustainable recovery.

When looking for a detox center for a family member with an addiction to drugs, you should know your role in their recovery journey. Ask if there will be family services for you.

Are there family group sessions? Is there individual counseling? Prepare to commit to your loved ones after they begin treatment at the detox center.

You Now Know How to Choose a Detox Center

Knowing how to choose a detox center may seem overwhelming. But, with the above tips, you can now make a more informed decision to help end your addiction to drugs and alcohol.

Do your due diligence on the various detox facilities in Ohio available regardless of your choice. Proper preparation might make a world of difference.

Mindfulness and Recovery: Theory and Mechanisms

Mindfulness for Addiction Recovery

In the 20th century, most people working in health sciences lumped mindfulness in with new-age practices that had no real evidentiary foundation that made them appropriate for clinical application in mental health or addiction treatment.

However, in the 21st century, the practice of mindfulness is no longer considered experimental. Once a novelty without much data or evidence to verify its benefits, research into the mechanisms and efficacy of mindfulness practices on health and wellness began in the 1970s. It gained momentum in the 1980s and 1990s. Then interest surged in the 2000s. Between 2000 and 2010, the volume of mindfulness studies published in peer-reviewed scientific journals exploded. This piqued the attention of the traditional medical establishment. It forced a shift in the way doctors, therapists, and health scientists view techniques once considered interesting but unverified fluff.

Since 2010, wide-ranging surveys and meta-analyses have addressed and verified the scientific basis for mindfulness. The current consensus is that practices such as meditation, yoga, tai chi, and basic breathing exercises are practical and effective components in the treatment of mental health disorders of all sorts. People in recovery from substance use disorders find mindfulness particularly effective.

This article offers a brief history of mindfulness in the U.S. We’ll discuss the neural mechanisms mindfulness training targets, and describe general theory to explain why mindfulness plays an important role in any treatment and recovery plan for people in treatment for substance use and addiction disorders.

Mindfulness in the U.S.

While a majority of the population may view mindfulness as a relatively new phenomenon, history tells a different story. Mindfulness arrived in the U.S. over a century ago. The renowned Indian guru Swami Vivekananda addressed the Parliament of World Religions in Chicago in 1893 tht’s now legendary. Vivekananda represented India, Hinduism, and yoga. But his speech triggered national interest in spiritual and physical practices from Tibet, China, and Japan.

In the decades that followed, the secular aspects of Hinduism, Taoism, and Buddhism – yoga, taiji/qigong, and meditation, respectively – slowly worked their way into American culture. The 1960s saw an explosion of interest in yoga. The publication of a popular series of books by Richard Hittleman helped. Then, in 1970, yoga made it to television. The show Yoga for Health proved yoga, and by extension, mindfulness practices in general, were here to stay.

Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, a researcher at the University of Massachusetts, conducted the first scientific studies on the mental health benefits of mindfulness. He began by examining the effect of mindfulness on chronic pain management. Next, he widened the scope of his research to include stress, anxiety, and depression. He synthesized his work into a system known as Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR). MBSR is now a default therapeutic technique in use by therapists, treatment centers, and addiction experts worldwide.

It’s been combined successfully with a variety of traditional psychotherapeutic modes. These include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Relapse Prevention (RP). Evidence for the complete integration of MBSR with these techniques – and its acceptance by the scientific community – is reflected in a new family of acronyms. We now have MBCBT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), MBDBT (Mindfulness-Based Dialectical Behavioral Therapy), MBACT (Mindfulness-Based Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), and MBRP (Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention).

Mindfulness Training: Neurochemical Mechanisms

For generations, neuroscientists believed that after a certain point early in life, the formation of new brain cells stopped. This misconception was debunked in the late 1990s, when scientists identified the formation of new brain cells in songbirds. They then documented the formation of new brain cells in adult humans in the early 2000s. A growing body of research proves definitively that mature humans can not only produce new brain cells, but the new brain cells can be produced in a relatively short amount of time. It only takes eight weeks – and the process can be facilitated by the practice of mindfulness techniques.

Mindfulness training results in an increase in brain matter density (neurogenesis) in the following brain regions:

Hippocampus

The hippocampus is an essential structure in the limbic network, the part of the brain primarily responsible for emotional regulation. The hippocampus also contributes to the formation of memory and cognitive functions like self-awareness, compassion, and reflection.

Amygdala

Part of the limbic network, the amygdala is known to be associated with sensations of stress and anxiety.

Posterior Cingulate Cortex (PCC)

The PCC is involved in the process of assessing the relevance of external stimuli to oneself. In addition, it contributes to placing these self-referential stimuli in an individual’s emotional and autobiographical context.

Cerebellum

The cerebellum is primarily known for its function with regard to sensory perception and motor control. However, it also contributes significantly to the regulation of cognitive and emotional processes.

Temp-parietal Junction (TPJ)

The TPJ facilitates the integration of internal and external sensory information, social cognition, and the ability to interpret the desires, intentions, and goals of others. Activation of the TPJ is linked to feelings of empathy and compassion.

The brain structures stimulated and strengthened by mindfulness training combine to form a functional group uniquely relevant to the treatment of substance abuse and addiction. Substance use disorders compromise and lead to deficits in emotional regulation, stress response, anxiety, self-awareness, social intelligence, and empathy.

While these deficits manifest in different ways for different people, their cumulative effect leads to dysfunctional behavior. This can manifest in the form of counter-productive coping skills. Self-medication – a common reason people use illicit substances – suppresses powerful emotions. Disproportionate stress-response and exaggerated anxiety increase the desire for self-medication. Distorted perception normalizes the self-destructive consequences of substance abuse. Diminished social intelligence and reduced empathy contribute to the tendency of people with substance use disorder to lose sight of the consequences of their actions.

Mindfulness training reinforces the neural mechanisms necessary to bolster the perceptive skills required to bring these deficits back into balance. It enables individuals to see and understand their behavior. This, in turn, allows them to build healthy and life-affirming coping skills that lead to sustainable recovery.

A Mindful Model of Addiction

A deep dive into the scientific literature available on the effects of mindfulness training on mental health disorders, including addiction treatment and recovery, leads the diligent reader to mountains of data describing the positive benefits of mindfulness. Most of these are related to well-being, mood, self-efficacy, stress tolerance, and the ability to gain a non-judgmental perspective on behavior. However, only one study elucidates the connection between Buddhist philosophy – the theoretical basis of most practical mindfulness techniques – and contemporary theories of addiction. In “Craving to Quit: psychological models and neurobiological mechanisms of mindfulness as treatment for addictions”, a 2012 paper published in Psychology of Addictive Behaviors, researchers apply the Buddhist theory of human suffering to substance abuse disorders.

They call it “an early model of addiction.”

The Buddhist Model

The Buddhist theory of suffering is relatively simple. It states that desire causes all human suffering. Therefore, the path to enlightenment – or in the case of regular people living 21st century lives, the path to health and wellness – lies in releasing attachment to objects of desire.

Buddhist philosophy also asserts that personal identity is formed, in part, by associations created by habitual behavior. An individual desires an object or subjective sensation and connects fulfillment of that desire to a concept of identity. This reinforces both the habitual fulfillment-seeking behavior and concept of self to the sensations and emotional states achieved by fulfilling the desire.

In the case of an individual with a substance use disorder, pleasurable sensations that follow substance use are the objects of desire. Those sensations become an aspect of identity. When those sensations fade, so fades the habituated sense of identity. The fulfillment of desire, therefore, becomes the search to maintain identity. Identity becomes inextricably intertwined with substance use.

Mindfulness Training: Interrupting the Craving Cycle

The way to break this cycle is to separate the habituated sense of identity from the cycle of desire. Substitute the idea of craving for the phrase cycle of desire, and addictive behavior becomes logical. A person with an addiction craves reinforcement of their sense of identity. More simply put, they crave being themselves. In the case of an individual with an addiction, the created self is counter-productive. It damages long-term health, function, and survival. When the cycle continues in unchecked, iterative repetition, it undermines the true self by distorting emotion, perception, memory, and cognitive function. It supplants and ultimately destroys the original self and becomes the default state of identity.

Buddhist scholars call this cycle “the chain of dependent origination.” Craving is what connects identity to the chain. Therefore, breaking the cycle of craving enables an individual to escape the cycles of addiction. Mindfulness training teaches the skills required to see the cycle as it is – a self-destructive one – and replace it with constructive patterns of behavior. Dr. Lawrence Peltz, author of “The Mindful Path to Addiction Recovery: A Practical Guide to Regaining Control over Your Life” describes mindfulness training as

“… In essence, mindfulness is the quality of awareness that sees without judgment, shining a light on each moment just as it is. This includes physical sensations, feelings, thoughts, and the nature of our experience continually shifting and changing. With practice, it is a skill that can be developed by anyone.”

The first step in developing this important recovery skill is learning to slow the mind down, relax, focus, and “shine a light on each moment just as it is.” There are many paths to this mind-state.  Seated meditation, walking meditation, breathing exercises, and the practice of yoga postures all work. What all these techniques have in common is that they help an individual see what drives their actions. It helps them gain the perspective they need to decide whether those actions help them or hurt them.

Benefits Of Mindfulness In Recovery

Mindfulness allows an individual to observe, for instance, that stress triggers a cascade of emotions that leads to a particular behavior, like substance use. Mindfulness allows the individual to understand that though substance use temporarily alleviates the symptoms of stress, that same stress, anxiety, and tangle of uncomfortable emotions returns when the substance clears their system. The clarity of mindful perception can lead to the insight that substance use, in the end, does not work. This insight may lead new levels of understanding. The authors of “Craving to Quit” summarize the benefits of mindful perception in this way:

“By decoupling pleasant and unpleasant experience from habitual reactions of craving and aversion, careful attention to the present moment can function to bring a broadening or spaciousness of awareness that allows new appraisals of life situation. A possible result of this…is the ability of mindfulness to facilitate positive reappraisal.”

Using Mindfulness To Overcome Cravings

When a craving hits, habituated patterns drive behavior toward the self and identity created by addiction. Traditional therapies based on talking and thinking often fail to interrupt these patterns.  Mindfulness training – through breathing exercises, somatic practices, and the cultivation of non-judgmental detachment – teaches skills to stop the cycle of craving in its tracks. It allows the moment of craving to pass without acting upon it. It creates the internal space to replace the negative patterns of addiction with the positive patterns of recovery.

In the context of treatment and recovery, the power of mindfulness lies in its ability to support, complement, and functionalize more traditional modes of therapy. While methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Relapse Prevention (RP) help individuals identify patterns of behavior that undermine health and well-being, they do not offer specific techniques with the strength to arrest craving cycles during the critical moments in which cravings occur.

Final Thoughts On Mindfulness Based Addiction Treatment

For decades, mindfulness training has helped individuals with substance use and addiction disorders achieve balance and harmony in their lives. In the early days of the mindfulness movement, the scientific establishment often ignored these techniques. Those days, thankfully, are over. Advances in neuroimaging have allowed researchers to identify discrete changes in brain structure following mindfulness training. This research offers clear data on the mechanisms by which mindfulness supports recovery.

Coupled with a compelling, logical theory to elucidate the role of mindfulness vis a vis identity, choice, action, and behavior, mindfulness is now part of a 21st century approach to addiction treatment. It’s no longer a novelty. The mental health community now accepts mindfulness as an effective, practical, and evidence-based model of treatment for substance use and addiction disorders – and that’s a sign of real progress.

Recovery Tips: Five Quick Ways to Beat Stress

Keep Acute Stress from Becoming Chronic

Everyone gets stressed.

It’s part of the human experience.

And anyone who’s lived through the past two years in the U.S. knows all about stress.

2020 gave us the pandemic and the election season. 2021 gave us more pandemic, more politics, and a dose of complicated world affairs. Two months into 2022, and guess what? More pandemic and more politics. And now we’re on the verge of another election season, which means even more politics.

Unfortunately, we can’t put our heads in the sand like an ostrich and ignore everything around us until it goes away. Because even if it does go away, more stress will come.

That’s why we say it’s part of being human.

And that’s why each of us needs to learn practical stress management skills. If we didn’t, we’d all walk around all day stressed, worried, and probably irritable or outright angry. At our families, at our coworkers, at our friends, or at the world in general.

That’s no way to live.

Stress and Addiction Recovery

If you’re in recovery from an alcohol or substance use disorder (AUD/SUD) or undergoing a detox program, you know how important it is to manage stress. From the small stressors to the major life stressors, you have to learn how to deal with them all. Because for you, too much stress can lead to the one thing you most want to avoid: relapse.

You understand that when you don’t address your stress head on, it builds up. What starts small – if ignored – gets large. It can happen quickly. Like a snowball rolling downhill. Let it gain momentum and it gets hard to stop. The more momentum it gains, the harder it is to stop.

Therefore, you go to meetings. You follow your sobriety plan. You stick to your aftercare program. Your meetings give you a place to talk things out in a supportive environment designed for you to share anything and everything that threatens your sobriety or might lead to relapse. Your aftercare program includes daily activities that support your sobriety and, by design, reduce your overall daily stress levels. You spent time during treatment learning what works for you and what doesn’t, so you should have the tools you need to manage your days and nights.

Sometimes, though, all that gets tough.

Your program may seem like too much. It might feel overwhelming. You may find yourself in the tricky position of feeling like the thing designed to keep you from being stressed and preventing you from relapse is actually causing stress, which you know can lead to relapse. When that happens, it’s important to take a step back, get perspective, and recalibrate.

It’s time to get back to basics.

How to Recalibrate

The most basic thing to remember is that you need to stick to your recovery plan. But here’s an important point: if you’re not doing basic stress reduction as part of your daily routine, it can undermine your recovery plan and disrupt your sobriety.

That’s how this post will help you. We’re going to remind you of the essential basics of stress management, so you can review them, check them against your daily routine, and make sure you’re setting yourself up for both success in recovery and success in life.

We’ll start by giving you a quick refresher on exactly what stress is and how it functions in our lives.

Stress: What You Need to Know

It’s important to understand that stress itself is not a bad thing.

It’s actually a productive force in our lives.

But not all stress is good.

There are two different kinds of stress: acute and chronic.

Acute Stress

In most cases, acute stress is positive, although it doesn’t always feel positive when it happens. Acute stress is what happens in your brain and body in response to immediately threatening external stimuli. When you have a near miss driving your car and your adrenaline spikes – that’s acute stress. It’s our natural fight-or-flight response kicking in. When the threatening stimulus disappears, so does the stress. It may take a few minutes, but it happens.

We feel the rush, then we calm down. That’s totally normal. And that’s the course acute stress is supposed to take when we experience it. There’s a spike, a denouement, then a reset back to normal. It’s as if the commanding officer in your brain shouts “High Alert! Battle Stations!” then five minutes later says, “Threat passed! At ease, soldiers, as you were.”

Chronic Stress

Chronic stress is stress that persists for a longer period of time. It lingers after the immediately threatening stimulus disappears. And, more importantly, it can also appear in response to stimuli that are not an immediate physical danger, but instead, cause psychological discomfort. Think of spending months or years in a job you don’t like, a marriage you’re not happy in, or in circumstances you don’t like: that’s what chronic stress feels like.

The problem is, your body doesn’t know the difference between acute and chronic stress, and that’s when problems can happen.

If we extend the military metaphor, chronic stress is like when the commanding officer in your brain shouts “High Alert! Battle Stations!” and then never tells you to stand down or to be at ease. Your brain and body stay on high alert. Sometimes for days. Sometimes for weeks. And for some people, this state of high alert may last for months or years.

If you’re in addiction recovery, you know chronic stress is one reason many people turn to alcohol or drugs in the first place, and why many people relapse: it’s painful and overwhelming. That’s why anything you do to keep acute stress from becoming chronic stress is important: it can keep you from feeling overwhelmed, keep you grounded, and keep you on your sober path.

The Consequences of Chronic Stress

If you’re in recovery, you should understand that stress management is not just for you.

Everyone needs to know how to keep acute stress from becoming chronic stress.

Why?

We need to learn productive ways to cope with stress because, according to the Mayo Clinic, long-term exposure to stress hormones – a.k.a. chronic stress – has a significant negative impact on your emotions, on your body, and on your behavior.

The behavioral consequences of chronic stress include:

  • Withdrawal from friends, family, and social activities
  • Overeating or undereating
  • Misuse of alcohol and/or drugs
  • Tobacco use
  • Exercising less

The emotional consequences of chronic stress include:

  • Sadness/depression
  • Anxiety
  • Anger/irritability
  • Decreased focus

The physical consequences of chronic stress include:

  • Fatigue
  • Insomnia
  • Stomach problems
  • Headaches
  • Muscle/joint pain and stiffness

And as we mention, if you’re in recovery, you know about another negative consequence of stress. It increases the likelihood of relapse. That’s why it’s important for all people in recovery to know the signs of stress, and to have a robust array of stress management strategies and techniques at the ready.

How to Manage Stress: First, Identify It

Practical stress management can be tricky, but the most effective stress management techniques are simple and straightforward. The tricky part lies in recognizing when to apply them and applying them consistently. We’ll repeat the main point of this article: if you make stress management a habit, you’re ahead of the game.

Before we offer our five tips for creating the foundation for effective stress management in your life, we want to address what we mean by the trick lies in recognizing them. Here’s what we mean: it’s critical for you to understand that the behavioral, emotional, and physical consequences of chronic stress are also the symptoms of chronic stress.

And to tie this together for people in recovery, what we mean is that when you feel overwhelmed by recovery and by your program, it’s time for you to take inventory – a phrase you should recognize from your time in treatment and from participating in community support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous (NA).

You take your stress inventory by asking yourself the following questions, which are derived from the list above.

Personal Stress Inventory: Twelve Questions to Ask Yourself

  1. Am I withdrawing from my friends, family, and my recovery community?
  2. Have I been eating too much or too little?
  3. Have I been thinking about drinking or using drugs?
  4. Has my tobacco use increased?
  5. Am I exercising less, or not at all?
  6. Have I been unusually sad lately, and don’t know why?
  7. Have I been unusually anxious lately, and don’t know why?
  8. Am I more angry or irritable than usual?
  9. Am I having problems concentrating at work, or following through on projects?
  10. Have I felt tired all the time over the past few weeks?
  11. Am I getting good sleep, and enough of it?
  12. Have I been having unexplained stomachaches, headaches, or muscle/joint pain lately?

We don’t have an official scoring system for these questions. However, if you answer yes to at least half of them, we think you need to be honest with yourself: you’re probably stressed – and your stress management techniques aren’t keeping up with your stress levels.

We don’t have to remind you – again – what happens when your stress overmatches your capacity to manage it.

Thankfully, we know how to help.

How to Manage Stress: Our Five Top Tips

When you realize you let your stress levels get unmanageable, or let them approach unmanageable, it’s time to do what we say in the beginning of this article. It’s time to recalibrate and make sure you set yourself up for stress management success. If you’re in addiction recovery, stress management success is almost synonymous with effective relapse prevention: that’s why managing stress should be a top priority.

Here are our top five tips for beating the stress in your life:

1. Hobbies and Sober-Friendly Activities

Spend time doing things you love, like practicing hobbies such as reading, playing/listening to music, or anything you enjoy that’s sober friendly and feels good.

2. Exercise and Activity

Get out of the house and move every day. Stay active and exercise in any way that works for you. Start with simple, fun activities like walking, running, or taking group exercise classes. Find something you love doing, and do it as often as your schedule allows.

3. Mindfulness Practices

Learning mindfulness techniques such as meditation, deep relaxation, mindful walking, tai chi, or yoga can make a big difference in your life. If you learned these techniques during treatment but dropped them when you returned home, we get it. Sometimes responsibilities force us to put mindfulness practices – and self-care – on the back burner. Now is the time to get back to that yoga, tai chi, or meditation practice that helped you find balance during treatment. It can bring you back into balance, now.

4. Social Contact

This one is simple: connect with friends and family as often as possible. If you’re isolated, or in a place without many family or friends around, we recommend recommitting to your recovery community. Go to more meetings, find a sponsor if you haven’t yet, and say yes to any sober-friendly get-togethers or events organized by people in your community support groups.

5. Good Food Every Day, Three Times a Day

Eat a healthy, balanced diet high in whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and lean protein. This is truly the foundation of good health. That means mental health, emotional health, and physical health. To achieve recovery success you need all three, and food is a great place to start. You don’t have to go gourmet, you just have to get the basics right: three healthy meals a day.

If you’ve been so busy you find yourself justifying drive-through fast food more than you can care to admit, we sincerely urge you to keep driving until you get home to your fridge or to a grocery store with healthy options. We promise your body will thank you. And making a good, healthy choice will boost your self-esteem and increase your chances of avoiding temptation the next time all you want is that happy meal or triple-decker.

The trick, as we mentioned above, lies in making these stress busting techniques habits that you practice daily, rather than exceptions that you implement when stress overwhelms you. The core philosophy behind successful stress management is creating a strong foundation of positive routines for your mind and body. That way, when things in your life do get stressful, your mind and body can handle them without getting out of balance.